Anita,

I miss you!! I remember the first time I met you and how you welcomed me into the family so readily. I think of you as my second mother and miss you just as much. I remember your kindness, your positive attitude, your wise words, and your humor!! How you gently and humorously suggested that perhaps it would be better not to say anything about anyone else's children until I had my own?!! I often thought of that line as I was raising my own!! This shows your constant nonjudgemental attitude, your sincere acceptance of people, and good natured approach to life!!
I miss the sweet excitement in your voice when we talked on the phone and your sincere smile in person and your laugh as we talked about life... I noticed your strength in the face of turmoil and always admired your calmness as you gave your best to your children no matter how sad you must have felt inside. I was inspired as I saw how you were always there for your children no matter what time of day or night it was!!
I miss you interacting with your grandchildren. No matter how busy you were I noticed you always had time to talk and joke with your grandkids and I know you made them feel special and loved. You were such a patient and kind person!!! And all the wonderful candy and goodies at the camping and cabin vacations!!! And of course all those wonderful dinners, often at short notice without a thought or complaint about all the work involved. I remember you gave so much Anita... and yet I never remember you asking or expecting anything in return. And when you faced your final struggle there was no complaining. You were brave and made it easier for those around you ...
Happy Birthday Anita!!! We will remember your generosity, strength, and spirit and we hope you know how much we appreciate all you did for us, even though we probably didnt say it as much we should have .... You are our inspiration, our hero, and we know you are still there for us...

Love to Angel Anita,
from your fifth daughter Tracy